Using a DIY or alternative object as a sex toy can be fun, but it’s essential to prioritize safety, hygiene, and comfort. Here’s a guide on what you can safely use, how to prepare the items, and what to avoid:
Safe DIY Alternatives
Choose objects that are:
- Non-Porous: Materials like stainless steel, glass, or hard plastic are easier to clean and less likely to harbor bacteria.
- Smooth and Seamless: No sharp edges or cracks that could cause injury.
- Easily Sanitizable: Able to be cleaned with soap and water or disinfectants.
1. Household Objects (With Precautions)
- Cucumbers or Zucchinis: Peel and cover with a condom. Ensure it’s firm and not too soft to avoid breakage.
- Bananas: Peel, then wrap in a condom for safety.
- Tapered Handles (e.g., Hairbrush): Smooth and clean plastic or metal handles can work. Cover with a condom.
- Ice Cubes: For temperature play, wrap in a soft, thin cloth or use an ice mold with a handle.
2. Items for Vaginal or Anal Play
- Stainless Steel Utensils: Smooth and polished items like the handle of a stainless steel spoon (ensure no rough edges).
- Glass Bottles: Use only borosilicate glass (like Pyrex) to prevent shattering. Avoid thin, decorative glass.
- Smooth Candles: Opt for non-toxic, unscented candles. Cover with a condom to protect against chemicals and melting wax.
3. Vibration Alternatives
- Electric Toothbrush (Handle): Use the rounded, smooth handle (not the bristle side) for vibration. Cover with a condom.
- Phone with a Vibrating App: Place the phone in a clean, resealable bag for external stimulation only.
4. Cushions or Pillows
- Fold or arrange pillows to straddle for external stimulation or grinding. Use soft, washable fabrics for hygiene.
How to Prepare and Use Safely
- Clean Thoroughly: Wash the object with soap and warm water before and after use. Disinfect if possible.
- Use a Condom: Cover the object with a condom to reduce risks, especially if it’s porous or not body-safe.
- Lubricate: Apply water-based or silicone-based lube (depending on the material) for comfort.
- Ensure Safe Removal: For anal play, use items with a flared base to prevent it from getting stuck.
- Test Before Use: Check for sharp edges, weak points, or parts that could detach.
What to Avoid
- Porous Materials: Items like wood, sponges, or uncoated rubber can harbor bacteria.
- Fragile Objects: Thin glass or ceramic can shatter and cause injury.
- Chemical-Laden Items: Avoid anything with toxic dyes, paint, or perfumes.
- Items with Batteries: Do not insert anything with exposed or poorly sealed batteries.
- Food That Can Break Apart: Avoid soft fruits like peeled bananas or items that can leave residues inside the body.
Pro Tips
- If you’re experimenting with DIY alternatives, prioritize external stimulation first. It’s generally safer and easier to manage.
- If you enjoy using these alternatives, consider investing in body-safe sex toys made from materials like silicone, stainless steel, or glass.
- Listen to your body—stop immediately if you feel any discomfort or pain.
Safety, hygiene, and consent with yourself (or a partner) are key to a pleasurable and risk-free experience!